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Image Bearer: Mom


Image Bearer: Mom

Mike Butler

As Christians, we believe that human beings bear the image of God. This means that who we are or we are supposed to be is based on the fact that God has made us to be like Him. Since God is a Spirit, the question must be asked, “How can I be made in the image of God?” While image means likeness, it doesn’t necessarily mean an exact likeness. Bearing it relates to the sum total of our humanity - which includes our Spirit. So we bear His image in man different ways and spaces. Perhaps one of the best examples of this image is found in the role of parents - mothers and fathers. This week, Pastor Butler focuses on a few passages related to Jesus’ mother Mary to discuss what it looks like to be an image bearer as a Mom. We’d love to have any and all join us Sunday mornings at 9 or 10:30 for a time of worship, community, and connection. For more information about CrossPointe, please visit us at or contact us at 405-329-0823.

Image Bearer: Mom

Mom’s who bear God’s image celebrate his mercy.

Luke 1:46-55, NIV 2011 “My soul glorifies the Lord 47and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, 48 for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, 49    for the Mighty One has done great things for me— holy is his name. 50 His mercy extends to those who fear him, from generation to generation. 51 He has performed mighty deeds with his arm; he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts. 52 He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble. 53 He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty. 54 He has helped his servant Israel, remembering to be merciful 55 to Abraham and his descendants forever, just as he promised our ancestors.”

Mom’s who bear God’s image commit to his ways.

Luke 2:4-7 NIV 2011 4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.

Luke 2:16-21, NIV 2011 16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told. 21 On the eighth day, when it was time to circumcise the child, he was named Jesus, the name the angel had given him before he was conceived.

Mom’s who bear God’s image confess when they don’t.

Luke 2:41-52, NIV 2011 41 Every year Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem for the Festival of the Passover. 42 When he was twelve years old, they went up to the festival, according to the custom. 43 After the festival was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it. 44 Thinking he was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for him among their relatives and friends. 45 When they did not find him, they went back to Jerusalem to look for him. 46 After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 47 Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers. 48 When his parents saw him, they were astonished. His mother said to him, “Son, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.” 49 “Why were you searching for me?” he asked. “Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?” d 50 But they did not understand what he was saying to them. 51 Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. 52 And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man.

John 2:1-12, NIV 2011 On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2 and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. 3 When the wine was gone, Jesus’ mother said to him, “They have no more wine.” 4 “Woman, why do you involve me?” Jesus replied. “My hour has not yet come.” 5 His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.” 6 Nearby stood six stone water jars, the kind used by the Jews for ceremonial washing, each holding from twenty to thirty gallons. 7 Jesus said to the servants, “Fill the jars with water”; so they filled them to the brim.  8 Then he told them, “Now draw some out and take it to the master of the banquet.” They did so, 9 and the master of the banquet tasted the water that had been turned into wine. He did not realize where it had come from, though the servants who had drawn the water knew. Then he called the bridegroom aside 10 and said, “Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now.” 11 What Jesus did here in Cana of Galilee was the first of the signs through which he revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him.  12 After this he went down to Capernaum with his mother and brothers and his disciples. There they stayed for a few days.

Luke, 8:19-21, NIV 2011 19 Now Jesus’ mother and brothers came to see him, but they were not able to get near him because of the crowd. 20 Someone told him, “Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to see you.”  21 He replied, “My mother and brothers are those who hear God’s word and put it into practice.”

Mom’s who bear God’s image have confidence that her children will as well.

John 19:25-27, NIV 2011 25 Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, “Woman, here is your son,” 27 and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.

Questions for Reflection:

  1. Read Luke 1:26-45 get the background for Mary’s story. How does Luke describe Mary? (e.g. age, attitude, standing, etc.) How does the angel describe Mary? How does Mary describe herself? How are each of these descriptions important in understanding why God chose Mary?

  2. Read Luke 1:46-55.  What stands out to you about Mary’s “song” (prayer) to the LORD? How do her words help you to understand her feelings about God?

  3. Sometimes people suggest that because of the strong “patriarchal” (Father) tone of the Bible that mothers are often relegated to position of inferiority. Read these passages and consider how God expects us to view our mothers. Proverbs 1:8, 6:20, 15:20, 19:26, 23:22, 28:24, 29:15, 31:1.  How can you better affirm your mother in word and deed?

  4. Read John 2:1-12 and Luke 8:19-21. In these passages, Jesus and his mother appear to be at odds in some ways. However, to read the passages clearly we can see that Jesus’ respect for his earthly mother is clear while keeping his task for his eternal Father in the forefront. Think through Mary’s requests or attitudes and Jesus response. How do they address Mary’s understanding of Jesus’ role? How does Jesus’ response speak to His respect for Mary? How do they communicate his commitment to His Father?

  5. Read John 19:25-27. How does Jesus’ treatment of His mother on the cross affirm His love for her? How does it confirm our responsibility to love our own mothers?